The Wheel of Life, conceptualized by Paul J. Meyer in the 1960s, is one of the most powerful tools coaches can use to support self-reflection. It helps clients assess how fulfilled they feel across different areas of life, highlighting where they’re thriving and where they may feel stuck.
Many coaches introduce this tool in early sessions to bring clarity to a client’s values, desires, and personal goals. But to unlock its full potential, the Wheel must reflect what matters most to each individual. That starts with choosing the right categories.
Below, you’ll find ten core categories to consider, along with guidance on how to personalize them for deeper, more meaningful conversations.
10 core categories to include in your Wheel of Life exercise
The following categories are common starting points for any coaching wheel. Think of them as a flexible framework: you can adapt the language, combine different categories, or even create new ones based on what resonates most with each client.
The names themselves aren’t set in stone. What matters most are the themes and values associated with them.
Health and well-being
Physical health, emotional health, and overall wellness are core to a client’s sense of vitality. Use this category to guide clients in reflecting on how well they’re taking care of their body and mind — everything from sleep and energy levels to movement and nutrition.
Encourage clients to consider questions like: Are you getting enough rest? Do your meals support your energy and well-being? Are you moving your body regularly in ways that feel good?
Stress plays a major role in physical and emotional health. Invite clients to explore how they currently manage stress, what their biggest stressors are, and what might help them navigate those challenges more effectively.
Career or work
For many clients, their job has a big impact on their daily life and personal growth. Use this category to explore their level of satisfaction at work and whether their current path supports their personal goals.
Invite reflection on career direction: Have they set goals for professional growth? Do they have opportunities to learn and advance? Are they satisfied with their work-life balance?
It’s also helpful to explore alignment. Does their job reflect their core values, or is something missing? Sometimes, clients need help clarifying those values before they can assess alignment.
Finally, ask whether their work feels meaningful or purposeful. This reflection can spark important insights about what kind of career would feel more fulfilling moving forward.
Finances
Money shapes many aspects of life, from daily decision-making to long-term planning, and it often plays a key role in a client’s sense of stability and overall wellness. In the Wheel of Life exercise, use this category to explore how clients feel about their financial situation. Do they feel secure? Are they able to save or manage expenses with confidence?
Talking through spending habits can spark useful insight. Clients may notice patterns they hadn’t considered, like spending more than they intended or overlooking small ways to improve financial health.
But this category isn’t just about numbers. It’s also about the client’s relationship with money. Finances are closely tied to stress, freedom, and even self-worth, making this an important area for deeper reflection.
Relationships
Our relationships add depth and meaning to life, offering support, connection, and a sense of belonging. Use this category to help clients reflect on the quality of their connections, including romantic, family, and social.
Invite clients to consider their support systems. Who do they turn to during tough times or when they need encouragement? Are they satisfied with the level of support they receive?
Communication is another key element to explore. Do any relationships feel strained by miscommunication or unspoken expectations? Are there people they wish they could communicate with more effectively?
Boundaries also shape relationship health. Ask clients to reflect on whether they’ve set clear boundaries, and, if not, what kinds of limits might support more respectful, balanced connections.
Personal growth
Personal growth is about developing greater self-awareness and committing to ongoing learning and evolution. Ask clients how dedicated they feel to this process and whether they’re actively working toward a more fulfilling life.
This kind of growth takes time and intention. It’s not quick and easy. Encourage clients to reflect on the goals they’re pursuing and the mindset they bring to their personal development.
They might explore this journey through education, therapy, life coaching, or spiritual practice, depending on their needs and values. Help them identify the approach that feels most aligned with where they are and where they want to go.
Fun and recreation
Fun and recreation often take a backseat to responsibilities like career or finances, but they’re essential for joy, self-care, and balance. Including this category in the Wheel of Life assessment invites clients to reflect on how much time and energy they dedicate to rest, hobbies, and play.
Ask clients how they spend their leisure time. Do they travel, create, or pursue activities just for fun? Are there passions they’ve set aside or wish they had more space for?
Encourage them to explore how making room for recreation and self-care could improve their overall well-being. This reflection can be a powerful reminder that fun isn’t a luxury — it’s a key part of a fulfilling, balanced life.
Physical environment
Our surroundings have a direct impact on how we feel. They can influence mood, focus, and even whether we experience a sense of calm or stress. Ask clients to reflect on the physical spaces where they spend time, such as their home, work environment, or other everyday settings.
Do these places support their well-being, or do they contribute to overwhelm? Are there areas that feel cluttered, draining, or out of alignment with how they want to feel?
Exploring this connection between environment and life satisfaction can spark meaningful insights and help clients identify small changes that support a greater sense of peace and clarity.
Spirituality or faith
This category goes beyond religion. It’s about a client’s connection to something greater than themselves. Encourage clients to explore what gives them a sense of meaning or purpose and how that ties into their lives.
For some, this might center around faith-based practices or religious beliefs. For others, it could be rooted in mindfulness, inner wisdom, or time spent in nature.
While the source of spirituality or faith varies, the key is helping clients understand how this connection supports their fulfillment and personal growth.
Contribution and service
True satisfaction often comes from making a positive impact, whether in someone else’s life or in the world at large. This category invites clients to examine how they show up for the people, causes, or communities that matter to them and whether those actions feel meaningful.
You might ask how they support others in their lives: Do they mentor, volunteer, or offer time and resources in ways that feel aligned with their values? Even small acts of kindness can carry weight.
Help clients explore what drives their desire to give back and whether their current efforts feel fulfilling, or if there’s a deeper impact they’d like to make.
Love and intimacy
This Wheel of Life category focuses on the relationships where vulnerability and emotional closeness matter most, whether that’s with a significant other, a close friend, or another deeply personal connection.
These bonds often influence overall well-being more than surface-level relationships, like those with colleagues or casual acquaintances. Invite clients to consider the quality of these intimate connections and the role they play in their lives.
Are they able to be open and emotionally honest? Do these relationships feel supportive and nourishing, or do they leave them feeling disconnected or unfulfilled? Helping clients assess this area can spark powerful insight into what they need from the people closest to them.
How to help clients personalize these categories
Whether you’re using these core categories or adapting your own version for Wheel of Life coaching, personalization is key. Every client brings a unique background, perspective, and path to personal growth, so the categories should reflect that.
During your life coaching sessions, invite clients to:
- Rename categories using terms that feel more natural or meaningful to them, like Faith instead of Spirituality or Creativity instead of Fun.
- Blend overlapping areas for simplicity or clarity, such as combining Love and Relationships into one broader category.
- Add new categories based on their priorities, like Mental Health, Parenting, or Travel.
- Let go of rigid templates. There’s no “right” number of categories, only what brings clarity.
- Use values-based prompts such as “What matters most to you right now?” to guide the process.
Use the Wheel of Life to start transformational conversations
The real power of the Wheel of Life lies in the self-awareness it sparks, not in checking off a perfect list of categories. When used as a coaching tool, it helps clients recognize areas of imbalance, clarify what matters most in their lives, and begin taking steps toward greater fulfillment and a more balanced life.
At the Jay Shetty Certification School, you’ll learn how to guide clients through meaningful tools like this one and how to apply them in a way that supports deep, values-based transformation. You’ll also use the Wheel of Life yourself, developing your own self-awareness so you can better support the growth of others.
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