Cayla Buettner

Cayla Buettner

Dating & RelationshipCoach

I help women find love. And then I helpthem know what to do when they find it.

My specialty is navigating the wholestretch from deciding it’stime to put yourself out there to building the first two years of a healthyrelationship: the profiles, the dates, the texts, the do I actually likehim?, the boundaries, the attachment theory, the trust & intimacy, intobecoming a couple. The backbone of my coaching is helping women find lovewithout losing themselves.

I’m a former matchmaker, and today I coach women privatelyand alongside professional matchmakers. Alongside my Jay Shetty SchoolCertification, I am certified in Yoga, Meditation, and trauma-informed SensualSomatics. Our sessions will weave between the mind to the body. I am interestedin what happens when you stop performing for love and start trusting yourselfto make love a verb; creatively giving and openly receiving.

I don’t believe finding love requires becoming more impressive,more desirable, or more perfect. And I don’t believe there’sone right way to build a relationship or a life. I welcome differentrelationship structures, expressions of intimacy, and ways of creatingpartnership. What matters is that the love you’re building is honest, intentional, and true to you.

My coaching work will intimately deepenyour connection to your Self and clarify what you value—while giving youpractical tools to communicate your needs, preferences and to build a lifearound the calls of your heart.

And this is the part I love-love: I’ve watched clients move fromfirst dates to relationships, engagements, marriages and, lately, starting families.

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